We are talking virginity ~ Nansfit Muhammad
Ni: Virginity
Before
you call a woman a slut, do some work to find out where she belongs. Don’t
get it twisted. For most women, earthly, there are three categories. Yes three, built by comportment of the mind. And these cannot be determined by mere sight,
a look at the garment or visible ornament. It is not social or economic, it is
neither cultural not genetic: it is the feeling; unwavering, stern, grit,
tenacious and rooted to the woman phenomena. Her identity.
We
are talking virginity.
The dominant cultural understanding is that a woman who’s never had intimate sexual
relationship with any man is a virgin. Yes, she is. But that’s just one, and
the common category. There are 3.
One
(ni): is the sexual virgin, who’s
sexual chastity is intact - nothing has been broken by the human flesh. Two (guba): is the masculine virgin, who
takes her man (husband or otherwise) as a god; they believe in them and have
total submission to his will and absolute trust in his ways. They do not
protest, even if it is against their desire. Whether hurt or in pain, their man
comes before anything else. Three (guta):
the devote virgin – is the woman entirely bonded to one man (at a time or
forever; it depends). Their love, sacrifice, awe is for one. The departure/
absence of which may lead to a permanent closure for no other. Such women may
lose their man to sickness, death, any form or pain or trial, still yet they do
not waiver in their love.
Ni, to
some is archaic. To some, who wants that? To others, it’s not civilized. She’s
just a normal girl with no sexual escapades, adventure or spice, thus she’d be
boring. That can be the same for guba
and guta. Humans are varieties and
desires composed in one. Notwithstanding, there are women who are either one,
two and three or one and three or other. Yes. That got spicier for the patriarch-dom.
At a time that rapid globalization of economies, networking, social media, and weakening
cultural barriers have in a way diffused into personalities, unconsciously
pressuring individuals to go with the practices of another, making us all look
the same, you don’t have to lose you. And to prevent that, you have to first
find you.
For
across waters, or the carriage of winds, the natural sex of a woman has a
constructive identity, one that will have to take a conscious bio-chemical
algorithm to alter. Looking into you, you just have to know and understand who
exactly are you? How do the invisible neurons equipped in you function? What are
the cravings you have? For when you do, your chance(s) for greatness is
limitless. The first step is finding out who you really are?
Note:
The theory on the three types of virgins was deducted from: “A Sufi Message of
Spiritual Liberty” written by Hazrat Inayat Khan (1882 - 1927)
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Nansfit Muhammad
has careers in both education and media. She has contributed her time to
bucolic development and Literacy. She’s a creative director for EsoEdu Tech.
and also an Associate Editor for EsoEdu Magazine. As a writer and poet, her
poems are mostly online. Nansfit has also created contents for video and audio
productions. She loves to write non-fiction and analyzing architectural
buildings.
Her
interests lie in Architecture, Agriculture, Environment and Education.
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